Kankakee, Illinois — A successful Kankakee, Ill. business owner and family man, LaVail’s life is far from what he experienced as a child.


Growing up on Chicago’s South Side, neglect, abuse, and physical and emotional pain were the norm for him and his two sisters and eight brothers, one of them his twin brother.
“My mom was 16 when she had my twin and me. She was abused by her auntie and grandma, and she was abusive to us.”
LaVail said he was frequently exposed to violence at home and sexual abuse when he was staying nights with a relative. He said chaos was the norm.
“We were whipped with cords, irons, you name it,” he said. “We went to school like that and that’s how we got taken away.”
LaVail said when he was 11, his mother went to jail and after a short stay with a family member, he went into the foster care system. Initially, he and his twin brother were together with a Chicago family, but eventually, all of his brothers and sisters were were in different foster or group homes throughout the state. He said through Lutheran Family Services, he stayed in contact with his siblings.
“We had family visits once or twice a month,” he said.
LaVail said by age 15, he was with nine or ten foster families before ending up in a group home in Kankakee, 60 miles south of the city.
A few months later, he and some of his friends found themselves in trouble.
“We saw a running car and no driver,” he said. “We took stuff out and ended up going to jail.”
Charged with burglary, Lavail spent the next 18 months in a youth detention facility in St. Charles. When it was time for him to leave the facility, he had nowhere to call home.

“One of my aunts let me stay on her couch, but said it could only be for a short time,” he recalled.
That’s when Youth Advocate Programs (YAP®), Inc. came into his life. Supported by philanthropy, the 50-year-old national nonprofit partners with youth justice, child welfare, and other systems to deliver community-based services as an alternative to incarcerating or placing youth in trouble or crisis in corrections and residential care/treatment facilities. Celebrating 20 years in Chicago, YAP®’s individual and family wraparound services adhere to principles of its unique evidence-based, unconditional caring approach. Central to the model is the nonprofit’s “no-reject, no-eject” policy.
When LaVail was in St. Charles, YAP® opened a Chicago office and partnered with Lutheran Family Services to deliver individual and family wraparound services to child welfare and youth justice-involved youth. Services included connecting kids like LaVail with kinship guardians.
YAP®’s evidence-based family-and accountability-centered services adhere to unique unconditional caring guiding principles that include a “no reject, no eject” policy. The nonprofit’s community-based employee Advocates and mental health professionals connect program participants and their parents or guardians with individualized economic, educational, and emotional needs services to help them thrive and firm their family foundation.
“When I came home, a man from the YAP® office told me about the program,” LaVail said, adding that he was skeptical at first. “Then one day, ‘Big Homie’ came. This big dude gets out of this little SUV. I ran out back, took off,” he added.

Big Homie is what LaVail affectionately called Antoine McNutt, one of YAP®’s first Chicago Advocates who delivered services to hundreds of young people before his death in 2022. LaVail said McNutt was relentless.
“He came by every day. And when I saw him roll up, I ran out back, took off, every time,” LaVail said. “Then one day when I ran out the back, he was standing right there.”
LaVail said he was terrified.
“I told him, ‘I ain’t going back to jail.,’ He said ‘I ain’t taking you to jail. I’m from YAP,’” LaVail recalled. “He told me, ‘I’m here to help,’ and then said, ‘You look hungry.’”
Not long after that they were at a nearby sandwich shop where they ate and LaVail spoke to the manager about getting him a job.
“He immediately showed me that I could trust him,” LaVail said.
Over the next few days, McNutt took him clothes shopping and eventually worked with his case worker to provide the support his aunt needed to become his guardian. In the coming months, McNutt helped LaVail and his twin brother, who was also in Kankakee, find jobs in Chicago closer to their other siblings. Through YAP’s Economic Mobility program, he also provided them with bus passes to get back and forth.
“Big Homie was thorough. He didn’t let up on you,” Lavail said. “When he saw I was hanging out with someone he didn’t feel good about, he’d tell me and would let that person know that when they were ready, he’d be there for them, too.”
LaVail remembers McNutt taking him and his twin brother to Bible study and church and encouraging them to take GED prep classes at Kennedy King College. He said along the way, McNutt found a way for them to complete classes and test to earn their high school diploma.
A pivotal moment for LaVail was when McNutt got him a part-time job sweeping and cleaning up at a Chicago barbershop.
“It was at 83rd and Colfax. That’s when I decided I wanted to cut hair,” he said. “After some time, I talked to the barber and told him and Big Homie I want to cut hair. That same week, McNutt signed me up at Larry’s Barber College.”
Lavail said getting his life on the straight and narrow involved some obstacles and backsliding. Still McNutt never wavered.
“I had one foot in and one foot out, still smoking weed and drinking,” LaVail said. “Big Homie would send a lawyer, but he didn’t play. He was like a father, really.”
Eventually, the days in church led to LaVail committing to making positive change in his life – with no turning back.
“I got saved, turned my life over to God,” he said.
In 2017, LaVail started his own barber business, leasing a space in a Kankekee shop from an established barber who knew that people were standing in line outside Lavail’s apartment in the projects to get haircuts.

After two years, he opened three shops of his own and started a family. He is determined to give his two boys and two girls the childhood he didn’t have. He often shares stories and lessons with them from his past.
“To this day, I tell my kids stories about Big Homie,” he said.
As part of centering family values, LaVail reconnected and has reconstructed his relationship with his mother. He moved her to Kankakee not far from his home, providing an opportunity for her to be near him and her grandchildren.
Learn more about YAP and how you can support the organization’s work at www.yapinc.org.
































